Wednesday, March 18, 2020

COVID_19 Day 5: Oh yeah, I need to do things, too...

Today was Marriner's first day home from the office, but he did have to go up to work anyway - someone in the lab left his laptop charger, and Marriner is on the short list of people who can still get into the office, because he had an experiment running at the time of shut-down. So he went and got his friend's charger for him. Then he Fed-ex'd it to him over night for $8, instead of 3-day, which was $35. FedEx is weird.

Kids still put in a full day of work at home, but some of them are starting to get through their work for the week, and I think we'll have some more down time toward the weekend. I've spent most of the week helping everyone else get the things they need taken care of, and sometime this evening I realized that I was spending a lot of time of Facebook because, you know, that's the easiest thing to do when you might get interrupted any moment. And there are a lot of funny jokes right now, and even a lot of good ideas... But, it's time to get off Facebook and get some work done! So I went out and worked in the garden. Got one whole flower bed cut back and ready for the spring. Also took some skin off the back of my thumb, and now I have a bandaid there, which makes it hard to wash hands a lot. Stupid virus.

After gardening, we went to the school yard and played kickball for our exercise time. We played with one person pitching and everyone else rotating to kick. If you weren't kicking, you were in the outfield. A funny play was after Jane and Sam had drifted off to the playground, my turn to kick came up with loaded bases...and there was nobody in the field except Martha, who was pitching. It looked like a guaranteed home run. But Lige stopped on 3rd base and kept me from running in until Martha had the ball back, so I only got a tripple. Well played, Lige. :)

Sam is still having a blast playing chess with Grandpa. We invited an uncle who is quarantined to play with us, but claimed he was no good at chess. He doesn't know what he's missing :)

After dinner, we watched funny spoof videos with the kids. There are a lot of them right now! Then we did some karaoke before the Branch youth activity.

Yes! We had a Branch youth activity! We found a game you can play online together, coupled with a Zoom meeting to be able to talk to one another. They had a fun time, though the end was mired in technical difficulties. But yay for creative solutions to social distancing difficulties!

Tuesday, March 17, 2020

COVID-19 Day 4: I'm sore!

Something I love about our new lifestyle: time to be active and exercise!

And...now I'm sore :)

But, despite my discomfort, I rode my bike to the grocery store. At the beginning of the situation, I thought, "The weather is so lovely. This would be a great time to try to go car-free for a bit!" Marriner suggested that I reset the odometer today and see how few miles I drive in the next two week. So I did. When Marriner called from work that he was getting kicked out and the lab was shutting down, I pushed the odometer as I took off to pick him up. He drove the car yesterday, in case he needed to bring all his work-remotely stuff home, but they said they weren't going to shut the lab down, so he biked today. And guess what - they called his op-too-much-ism. So I drove up to bring him and all his work junk home. (He calls them "samples", but they look like scrap metal to me...ha ha).

Going to the store was like entering the war zone. We'd heard it was crazy out there, but it's almost a week since the announcement that everything was shutting down, and I sorta thought things would be back in stock by now. Nope. I got about half the things on my list. And no potatoes. I'd heard that from someone else, but I wanted to make mashed potatoes, darn. I'd made a menu for the week before I left, and about half the things on the menu are missing items. I was a little shocked that even a well-prepared girl like me is having to adapt to the situation. We might actually be living off our food storage to some degree here! So, tomorrow I'll go change my menu to have fewer fresh veggies and more storage items. Oh, and add cabbage - they had lots of cabbage, and it was on sale, too. And I like cabbage! Alas for the rest of my family...

School is keeping the kids busy, except Sam. They're all staying busy the full 4 hours we have scheduled. But at 2pm, Sam has a date with his grandpa to play chess every day, and some of the kids are less productive during that time. They have a hard time letting him make bad decisions :) Grandpa just got back from Europe and is in quarantine for 14 days, so we're glad he has time to hang out with Sam, even if it's not ideal circumstances.

As more and more of the country shuts down, more and more people are doing things virtually to reduce isolation. I'm starting to feel bad that we're not going to be able to do all of them! Here are some of my favorite things I've seen lately:

  • The Deaf community is posting #operationASLstorytime videos for kids.
  • Mo Willems (who wrote my favorite kids book, "Nanette's Baguette", is doing a "Lunch Doodle with Mo Willems" video every day.
  • A local meteorologist is doing weather lessons for kids every day.
  • Someone posted a list of museums that have free virtual tours you can take.
  • The guy who does the voice for Olaf is reading a kids story every night
I mean, we could stay busy with all this stuff, except we have to do school work, too. Yup, day 2 of homeschool, and even homeschooling gets in the way of my lifestyle. Lame. :)





COVID-19 Day 3: The start of home school :)

Today, we made a temporary schedule. I'm sure as things settle down, we'll tweak it, but here's our plan for the next little bit:

6am - anyone who wants to can go jogging with Dad. This is what you can do when you don't have Seminary!!
7am - breakfast, piano practice, clean room, etc. You know, all the stuff you're supposed to do before school
9am - some time to work on personal goals or do some service
10 - 3 - School work with lunch in the middle.
3pm - Exercise! This is literally the part of the day we're all most excited about. Go play tennis, basketball, or something active as a family.
4pm - down time
5pm - get ready for dinner, clean the house

Sam took about 30 minutes to finish all his school work for the day. He did about 10x more reading than he normally does, because that's what you do when you finish your school work early :) Bwahahah.... Everyone else kept pretty busy throughout the whole day. We'll see if that lasts all week long or not.

My favorite part of the new schedule is the way we are exercising. That's something that's been squeezed out of our lives, but now that you can't do anything else, you might as well be healthy! It's great!

Marriner's lab hasn't closed, they've just encouraged everyone to telework as much as possible. Marriner loves it - he can go in and do his experiments without seeing or being interrupted by anyone. He's trying to get as much experimentation done as he can before the lab may decide to actually close, then he can stay home and write papers.

Ok, back to normal life! See ya later!

Monday, March 16, 2020

COVID-19 day 2: Home church

We're not too bothered by the idea of having church at home. We do it every time we get sick. But this was a bit of a different situation.  There are a lot of people in the branch whose family are far away, aren't members of the church, or don't even know ASL.  So we had a virtual worship service (aka Sacrament meeting without the sacrament) and then a virtual Come Follow Me discussion (aka Sunday School without the teacher.) The worship service included our scheduled stake speaker, Sister Peterson from the stake Primary. She called from her home, and Marriner signed to the webcam on Youtube live. Then Brother Wardle talked about the sacrament, and why you should keep that as a focus of your sabbath, plus how to do it at home. Lige did a demonstration of what the sacrament would look like in our house - Ikea cups, bottle of water, and a slice of bread on an Ikea plate. Then Brother Scott reviewed council from our prophet and local leaders on the situation. It was a very nice meeting. Lige voiced the talks for the stake speaker to hear and did a FABULOUS job. This kid is getting really good! 

Before church, while Marriner and his counselors were downstairs troubleshooting technology, I tried getting the kids ready to change gears from silly to reverent. So we all sat on a bench in our living room and pretended to drive to church. I thought the kids would think this was fabulous, but it turns out that the kids were really bothered by us driving to church without their shoes on. I didn't want them to put on shoes so they didn't put them all over our chairs downstairs. But it turns out that shoes are a really important part of Sunday for some of my kids. And of course, they couldn't find their Sunday shoes. SERIOUSLY GUYS. We had church at home, and we were still late (well, not late, but not early...) because we couldn't find our church shoes. Right as the service was starting, one of my kids was being a dork still, and I threatened, "If you want to go to church today, you'd better sit your bottom down RIGHT NOW." Marriner waved at me - the broadcast had already started, and everyone got to hear that part. Ha.

I taught a Primary class about being unshakeable in our faith. We went outside and tried shaking various items in our yard - big trees, little trees, cars, the shed, etc. The same person who was being a booger before sacrament meeting was still being a booger, so we didn't get as much of an explanation of HOW you make your faith unshakeable, but hey, the kids will remember the lesson, anyway.

After "church", we decided to enjoy the fabulous weather and went for a walk to see blooming trees in the neighborhood. Do you know how many years it's been since we've been able to do that? Marriner is ALWAYS busy on Sunday afternoons. He still had a busy evening, but the flexibility was lovely. 

So far, enjoying the family time and the break from the hectic schedule. 


COVID-19 Day 1: Pi Day

Thursday, everything in our normal life was canceled. School was shut down for at least 2 weeks. Church was canceled until further notice. We spent the day watching one thing after another announce cancellation or closure. It caused a little disappointment, as the things you've been working and preparing for (county science fair, interfaith concert, trip to Paris...) are all shut down, but of course, we know that it's what needs to be done. And, I went to the library on Wednesday and stocked up, so we're ready to batten down. :)

When all church and scout meetings were cancelled, I'd already bought the things for Lige's Eagle Court of Honor that was scheduled for Friday. So instead of making pie on Friday, I went to the school and helped with the book fair. Saturday, we needed to use up all those pie crusts I'd bought :)

Since we couldn't get together with our friends and eat pie, we decided to take the pie to them. All 5 of the older kids made a pie themselves. Lige made walnut, Ellis made strawberry rhubarb, Lillian tried a pina colada pie that turned out quite nicely despite some scramble for ingredients. (You all know what the grocery stores look like right now...) Sam made banana cream, and Martha made a chocolate cream pie. I felt a little swelling of pride that 5 of my kids can cook enough to make a pie (as long as we have pre-made pie crusts...) Good thing I taught the little kids to make pudding! :)

After we made and chilled the pies, we set out to bring pie to the downtrodden people of the world (everyone qualified.) After making a long list of who we wanted to take pie to, and realizing that we couldn't do that, we let each kid pick a person to bring pie. Lige picked a house of single people on his ministering list. Ellis picked a widow on her ministering list. Lillian picked a friend from school, who unfortunately wasn't home. Martha picked a friend from church. Marriner snuck in someone he ministers to. And Sam picked a friend from school. We drove around, carried 5 pies up to the door and let them choose which one they wanted a slice of. Then we donned gloves, served the pie, chatted a few minutes, and took off. It was very fun, but alas, at dinner time we were somewhere in the middle of Northern Virginia, and so we had to buy pizza (pie) for dinner. Alas. The first pie to disappear was....what do you guess?...Martha's chocolate cream pie! That one was popular with the little kids and picky eaters :) But as for which pie was the best....well, that's a 5-way tie. So pie day was a fabulously fun time around here, and we're glad that even though we can't get together in groups, we can still visit people and have fun.

Sunday we extended the festivities with leftover pie. After we finished home church, Sam declared, "And now it's time for PIE-mary!" I mean, who can argue with that?? And we ate the quiche that we planned to have for dinner Saturday, but ran out of time for :)

While all the kids and moms were making pie, Marriner was busy trying to put together plans for a virtual church service. He got to grapple with all sorts of technology he'd never worked with before, but finally decided they would  have all the speakers come to our house and broadcast YouTube live. It's amazing how figuring out stuff like that can take the whole day. 

Friday, February 28, 2020

One of my kids is a little contrary.

Just came home from a fabulous weekend in Utah with Sam. My grandpa, Norman Turner, finally passed away after several years being stuck in a not-so-useful body. He was ready to go, and we all consider it a blessing from a merciful God that his final struggle wasn't drawn out over the course of weeks or months. And it was another wonderful tender mercy that all of Grandpa's descendants were able to come to the funeral, including my parents who are missionaries in France!

I took Sam with me. His middle name is Norman, and we really want him to understand who his grandpa is, and why he's named after him. It would have been nice if Sam had been able to know him while he was healthy. I hope that Sam remembers some of the stories he heard this weekend.

Speaking of Sam...there is something about sign language and music - and this is not just Sam. While we're at church, Sam is never inclined to sign the songs. He turns on his ears and looks all over the room, but usually isn't signing. This is difficult for his mom in Primary, who spends a lot of time tapping Sam and telling him to pay attention :) But whatever, he's 7. But somehow everything changes when we fly to Utah and nobody is signing. Somehow, you just have an urge that you NEED to express yourself with your hands. You can't handle just using your voice. So, during the funeral and at church the next day, Sam sang every single song in sign language. He did a pretty good job translating for himself. A lot of fingerspelling - it was clear which words he didn't know the meaning of - but he's a better signer than I gave him credit for! I think this sudden desire to sign music in a hearing crowd is a little bit of a desire to say, "Hey, I have this whole part of my life that I want you to know about me!" and partly just a natural expression when you're feeling a little emotional. And we were definitely feeling a little emotional. I didn't sign during the funeral, though, because I was on the stand waving my arm in the traditional manner. And you know what - it makes your arm tired. I like signing better :) But I definitely feel more competent beating the music instead of signing it. Anyway, it still made me laugh at how my son stubbornly avoids signing while we're in a signing environment, but as soon as nobody who cares is around, he's suddenly Mr. ASL :) I think he might be a little contrary :) In the nicest way :)

While we were in Utah, the song "I want it that way" by the Backstreet Boys came on the radio. This is significant because a week ago, the song came on the radio while I was driving alone, and for some reason, I was taken by one of these moods to sign. And since practicing interpretation is on my to-do list right now, I let myself go. Ok, so guess what - that song makes NO sense at all. As far as I can tell, the only point of the lyrics was rhyme and meter. But the song came on again a few days later, and after thinking, "What is this a 90's revival week or something?" found myself trying to sign it AGAIN. Then I remembered that it was lame and stopped myself. So when it came on again in Utah, I was starting to feel the conspiracy theories. But at least my sisters were there to confirm that the lyrics were totally lame. And, it came on again on the way to the grocery store the day after I got back. I changed the station. :)

Ok, one more music story. I went to the ASL ward in Provo while I was there. It was fun to catch up with a few people who had moved from DC. The music leader was really fabulous, he's interpreted for church broadcasts before, and I admit, he's one of my faves :) One thing he did that I really liked was changing the way he signed repeated phrases. In "I believe in Christ", for example, he first signed, "I trust Christ", which changed to "I have faith in Christ", "I actually believe in Christ", "I definitely believe in Christ" and maybe a few more that I can't remember. I've seen this done before, but I never really "got it." But this time, I really enjoyed it! In English, we use the changes in the music to give emphasis and meaning to the repeated words. I was impressed by how powerful it was to add emphasis this way in ASL. Makes me want to try it in Primary. Except I think that would probably be a little complex for some of the kids. Anyway, we'll have to find some ways to incorporate this new realization of mine...

Well, that's my report from our trip to Utah. It's always funny to me how I still have things to write about when I'm not at home :)

Tuesday, February 4, 2020

The Super Bowl

I remember reading an essay years ago by Steve, the star of the children's TV show "Blues Clues". He talked about the funny things related to being "fame-ish" - that is, famous with a small subset of people. In his case, toddlers and their mothers. He would walk around New York City like a normal person, nobody recognizing him, until some kid and his mother were seen staring awkwardly, not sure if that really was Steve. He claimed it was an interesting life.

This weekend, one of our friends became fame-ish! She was the interpreter for the Super Bowl halftime show. It was a big break for her career, and we were so excited for her, but honestly, weren't sure we wanted to watch the show because of the other performers - Jennifer Lopez and Shakira. They don't always...wear enough clothing... But, Sunday night came around and Marriner was out helping people with Lige. So Ellis and I decided to watch our friend. She was GREAT! It was so fun to watch her! I wish I could have said the same for the rest of the show - it was horrible. So much sex. So little clothing. I felt really ashamed for them.

The next day was full of discussion on the internet. Turns out I wasn't the only prude in the crowd. I was surprised at the defenses of the show. "What did you expect? If you didn't want to watch the sort of show they put on, you should have changed the channel." The thing is, we used to have standards for shows that were during times when families were watching.

Anyway, I won't write my imagined Washington Post opinion article about why trashy halftime shows are wrong here. Anyone who reads this blog agrees with me, anyway. But all that is to say I'm sorry I can't share the video of my talented friend. It's ridiculous to me that part of the Super Bowl was THAT offensive, but it really was just awful.

Oh yeah, and then there was that OTHER awful part of the Super Bowl...for some reason that I can not understand, the Super Bowl has an ASL interpreter during the national anthem, but they can't seem to figure out that if you don't show the ASL on camera, it doesn't do anyone any good. For the second year in a row, the interpreter has performed all by themselves with no audience except for a little 20 second spot. This year, Fox Sports said they would have a committed camera for the ASL interpreter. But I guess they forgot to tell the cameraman? Because halfway through the song, they moved away and showed us pictures of huge guys with their game faces on. Ugh, hardly what I wanted to see right then! :)

It's one thing to not have interpreters. It's another thing to claim to be deaf friendly, but then drop it mid-stream.

Anyway, I'm so over the NFL.